So Overall...
Does it still get the 4.5*. Yes very much so. In fact would I say it's now about 4.7*. Yes!
It's a great car to drive, and yes I run it daily in Eco mode, and with everything turned on such as traction control etc... but that's because I don't want to be boy racer every day. But when you want it to be a bit naughty it can be and that's what I love about it.
Frankly if the Phone link thing worked with bluetooth and the apple car play and it didn't drink as much oil as an alcoholic on a night out in town I would have moved it to 5*. The phone thing is really a bug bear that I have to deal with daily and really does annoy me, but apart from that this really is an excellent car. Fast, fun, not as bad fuel efficiency as expected, with a real touch of class in the cabin from a brand you can really trust in.
Honestly if you want a small scale family hatch you really can't do much wrong by buying a Golf GTD